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Can you book a single session with me?

Working with me is about creating new approaches, re-wiring patterns, and building skills. Taking time is an essential part of this, so there are some parameters to what I offer.

A one-off or single session is great when there’s a quick, or standard solution to a problem.

But you and your body are unique and complex.

Why I don’t offer single sessions, or a ‘quick fix’

The impetus to seek sex or intimacy coaching is usually that you feel something needs improvement, or isn’t working the way you want it to, in your love-life. When we experience this we often want someone else to ‘fix’ things.

But when it comes to sex and intimacy, the only person who can really fix things is you. Making changes requires a desire to make changes in yourself. And this takes time.

Feeling pressure to perform, or achieve results is often what has contributed to dissatisfaction with sex or intimacy. Trying to ‘fix’ things too quickly is counter-productive – it’s just not possible in a single session.

I’ve found it generally takes at least 3 sessions (6 hours) to create trust – between us, and with your own body – so that you can relax into your experience and learning.

How can you work with me?

The tools and practices I offer are foundational, and I find they often provide the key to unlocking more specific sex or intimacy issues that might have been the initial impetus for seeking a coach.

So I’ve developed a number of multi-session programmes which focus on some of the most effective ways I’ve found to support and empower clients.

Find out more about my coaching programmes

If you want to work with me but you don’t see exactly what you need in my coaching programmes, I also offer in-person tailored Intensives of 1, 2, or 3 days, as well as tailored online coaching series.

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