Frustrated by apps and hookups as a way to try and explore your desires in a safe, meaningful way?

Feel like touch and physical intimacy isn't working for you the way you want, but unsure how to change that?

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A 1.5-day group event for men who like men

Wellington NZ, 1-2 March 2024

Explore healthier giving and receiving in your touch and relating

Most men who are attracted to men have few reference points or education (outside porn) for how to give and receive touch well.

There’s a lot of pressure for gay touch, and physical intimacy to look a certain way. But for many men that feels unsatisfying or frustrating.

This workshop is a chance for you to explore something new when it comes to giving and receiving touch.

A unique opportunity for you to reset your relationship with consent and sensuality

What is conSensuality?

conSensuality spaces are guided and supported learning experiences, where you can practice connected touch, body to body with another man. Watch the video to find out more about some of the key elements involved...

What is this 1.5-day group event?

It’s about starting to build intimate trust – with your own desires, with your own boundaries, and in relationship with other men.

Anchored in the Wheel Of Consent, and the 4 dynamics of touch that are the foundation of my one-to-one conSensuality coaching, this is a chance for you to gather with a group of like-minded, curious men, to explore some foundations for giving and receiving touch more consciously and enjoyably.

Our time together will be a mix of practical exploration, theory-based tools, reflection and discussion. There will be opportunities for touch which may include the whole body, but we won't be focussing on the genitals. You always get to choose if and how you want to touch or be touched. Nothing is compulsory.

We'll start gently, and work slowly, helping you build skills for noticing and trusting what feels right for your own body. There may be times when clothing is optional, but you can choose how clothed or unclothed you want to be within the agreements for each exercise (and underwear will always stay on).

This is NOT a workshop where you’ll learn fancy touch strokes or massage techniques.

This IS a workshop where you can learn how to choose what touch you do or don’t want, and communicate that clearly with another.

This workshop is for you if you:

Are looking for a gay or queer conscious touch workshop for men, which has choice and safety built in

Want to learn or practice skills for consenting, sensual, and intimate interactions with other men in a hands-on way

Have a curiosity to learn about your own desires and boundaries in a respectful interactive learning container

Don’t have a partner to explore with, or don't want to use hook-ups to practice intimacy and relating skills

When is it?

Fri 1 Mar: 18.00 - 21.00

Sat 2 Mar: 10.00 - 21.00

Where is it?

Lower Hutt, Wellington, NZ

How much does it cost?

$250

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What participants say about other conSensuality events

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"A uniquely safe experience. A beautifully held space with the gentlest facilitation. Precise, meaningful and gentle"

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"As a bisexual man living a predominantly hetero life, this workshop allowed me the space to explore my sexuality in a way that has never been available to me before"

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"Amazing. So beautifully tailored. Very clear communication and a fantastic energy. Felt very safe throughout. It is so individual ... you will be seen and heard"

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