conSensuality

personalised gay intimacy coaching Immersives

Longing to experience more enjoyable gay touch and pleasure, but unsure where to start?

Frustrated by apps and hookups as a way to try and explore your desires in a safe, meaningful way?

Want to learn more about your own erotic self beyond the patterns or restrictions of a relationship?

This unique practical and guided space is the perfect way to learn about your erotic self with another man.

What is a conSensuality Immersive?

A 1-day interactive learning experience for gay, bi, or curious men, working body to body with me

Hands-on coaching to help you develop your erotic skills and confidence when you’re with another man

Structured, guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires

Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment

About Immersive sessions with me

conSensuality = sensual and consenting.

Our process is kept as safe as possible with a clear structure, transparent practices, and mutual agreements.

Sessions are anchored in the 4 dynamics and 3 types of touch - and you get to choose which of them you want to explore.

You can change your mind, or stop whenever you need to. The journey is guided by your needs, and I bring my learning, skills, heart and body in joyful service to support you.

Watch the video to learn what a conSensuality Immersive is about.

Please also read the agreements for interactive erotic touch sessions with me.

Each session includes:

Structured practices to open connection with your body and with mine, and explore your desires

Time to explore touch and the body in ways which are tailored for you

Reflection time to help integrate your experiences and learning

What is a gay sacred intimate, and am I one?

A gay sacred intimate is sometimes described as a professional who uses his own body to help others access the joy and power of erotic energy. The term was coined in the 1970s by one of my teachers, Joseph Kramer, founder of Sexological Bodywork.

Although I don’t define myself as a gay sacred intimate, conSensuality Immersives do provide a professionally held learning environment, in which you can experience and explore your sexual self, and practice your erotic skills, body to body with another man.

It's somewhere outside the potentially tricky environment of a hook-up, or the patterns of a relationship, where you can try things that might feel unfamiliar, sensitive or vulnerable - without shame or judgement, and with support and encouragement

“Pleasure, nakedness, arousal, and erotic expression are all welcome in this space we create together”

Michael Dresser

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"

Huw, England

Who is a conSensuality Immersive for?

Personalised Immersives with me are ideal for you if you...

Are a man who would like to explore or experience your erotic self, intimacy and touch with another man

Want to learn or practice skills for consenting, sensual, and intimate interactions in a hands-on way

Have a curiosity to learn about your own desires in a respectful interactive learning container

Don't want to use hook-ups or your actual sex life to learn or practice intimacy and relating skills

For individuals who want to work body to body with me, and couples who want to work together, guided by me.

There are many reasons why you might benefit from a conSensuality Immersive with me. Read these mens' stories:

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Booking a conSensuality Immersive

If we’ve worked together before you can book a 1-day, 2-day or 3-day Immersive with me.  Click here for prices.

If it’s our first time working together there are a couple of extra steps involved. Here’s how it works and what it costs:

1.

Free clarity call of up to 30 minutes. This is a relaxed, no-obligation chance for us to connect online - for you to ask questions and for me to make sure I’m able to offer what you’re looking for.

2.

Introductory 3-hour online coaching session. We’ll put practical foundations in place to create connection with your own body, build our working connection, and prepare for our time in person together. And we’ll discuss in more detail what you want to explore in the Immersive.

3.

1-day Immersive in person. This is where we get to work together body to body. The day is split into 2 3-hour sessions, with a break in the middle. Each session is gently guided, flexible and personalised to help you maximise your learning and experience.

What does it cost to work with me for the first time?

FREE
£

Clarity Call of up to 30 minutes

£

Confirms your introductory online coaching session

£

Due after your online session, confirms your in-person Immersive

Total cost: £490*

After the introductory online session either of us can choose not to continue and you will have no further commitment or charge. After the online session we will confirm our agreement to book the in-person Immersive. Each staged payment is non-refundable once paid.

*Price shown is to work with me at my home base in Scotland. To work in Edinburgh or London please add an extra £160 - this includes costs for the dedicated venue we will work in which I hire from a trusted professional colleague. The Immersive is non-residential.

Take your next steps...

Michael Dresser mindful gay sex intimacy coach London Edinburgh UK

Doing this work together is a very personal experience so it's important we're a good fit.  That's why I offer a free, no-obligation Clarity Call if we haven't worked together before.

This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

Use the form below to get in touch with me and start the process. Or click the booking link to schedule a time directly.

Or if you're ready to schedule your Clarity Call now:

More ways to learn with me:

Man to Man

Ask me anything. Chat with me over a cuppa about gay sex, intimacy, relating, pleasure or arousal. Bring your curiosity and questions

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The Joy of Touch – for couples

A simple, illuminating practice for couples to improve touch and communication – so you can BOTH get a touch experience you really enjoy.

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Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

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Want to explore conSensuality in a group?

Plans are forming for conSensuality: The Gathering - a conscious touch and intimacy retreat for men. This is a unique opportunity for you to reset your relationship with consent and sensuality in company with an intimate group of like-minded men.