conSensuality

hands-on gay sex and intimacy coaching for men

One-to-one coaching

VIP Personalised retreats

Longing to experience more enjoyable gay touch and pleasure, but unsure where to start?

Frustrated by apps and hookups as a way to try and explore your desires in a safe, meaningful way?

Want to learn more about your own erotic self beyond the patterns or restrictions of a relationship?

conSensuality = sensual + consenting

Whether one-to-one with me, with your partner, or in a group, conSensuality is a unique practical and guided way to learn about your intimate self body to body with another man

Two questions.

Infinite possibilities.

How do you want me to touch you?

How do you want to touch me?

They sound simple but working with these two questions opens a doorway to four profound and distinct experiences of interaction, with the potential to give and receive the touch you truly desire.

What you get

The gift of time, care and attention from another man - free from agenda or expectations.

Access to my experience and expertise to support your expansion into healthier erotic and physical intimacy.

Permission and encouragement to explore your authentic self and desires, without shame or judgement.

What that looks like

Spacious structure and clear agreements with plenty of reflection time to help integrate your physical learning.

Your pleasure, arousal and sexual expression are as welcome as your thoughts, words and feelings.

Touch may be clothed or unclothed and can encompass the whole body (including the genitals). You get to choose.

Why choose this

You want to change old habits or patterns of sex, intimacy or relating, in a way that includes your whole body.

You want to practice body to body with another man in a safely held learning container.

You want to explore and learn about your intimate self without the pressure of a hookup or relationship.

Choose how you want to explore conSensuality

I offer conSensuality gay sex and intimacy coaching in a number of different formats. Click below to learn more about each of these

One-to-one coaching

A 9-hour interactive learning pathway, working body to body with me, or your partner

VIP personalised retreats

Dive deeper over 2 or 3 days, nourished and cared for in a beautiful residential space

Workshops

Join a group of like-minded men to explore trust, intimacy and touch together

“An unmissable experience…the best part was Michael’s willingness to listen and respond to my wants as we crafted our sessions together”

Terry

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"

Huw

"Michael helped us navigate our own internal pleasure maps and learn what works and what does not work for each of us"

Dan & Ian