conSensuality

personalised gay intimacy Immersive

Longing to experience gay touch and pleasure body to body with another man, but unsure where to start?

Frustrated by apps and hookups as a way to try and explore your desires in a safe, meaningful way?

Want to learn more about your own erotic self beyond the patterns or restrictions of a relationship?

This unique practical and guided space is the perfect way to learn about your erotic self with another man!

What is conSensuality?

A 1.5-day interactive learning experience for gay, or gay-curious men, working one-to-one with me

Hands-on coaching to help you develop your erotic skills and confidence when you’re with another man

Structured, guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires

Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment

How does it work?

conSensuality is sensual and consenting. Our process is kept as safe as possible with a clear structure, transparent practices, and mutual agreements.

Sessions are anchored in the 4 dynamics and 3 types of touch - and you get to choose which of them you want to explore.

You can change your mind, or stop whenever you need to. The journey is guided by your needs, and I bring my learning, skills, heart and body in joyful service to support you.

Watch the video to learn what a conSensuality Immersive is about.

Please also read the agreements for interactive erotic touch sessions with me.

“Pleasure, nakedness, arousal, and erotic expression are all welcome in this space we create together”

Michael Dresser

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"

Huw, England

Who is conSensuality for?

This Immersive is for you if you...

Are a man who would like to explore or experience your erotic self, intimacy and touch with another man

Want to learn or practice skills for consenting, sensual, and intimate interactions in a hands-on way

Have a curiosity to learn about your own desires in a respectful interactive learning container

Are not able to explore with a partner, or don't want to use hook-ups to practice intimacy and relating skills

There are many reasons why you might benefit from a conSensuality Immersive with me. Read three men’s stories:

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Terry's story

Coming out in later life, and feeling inexperienced

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Anders' story

Rediscovering touch, and intimacy after chemsex

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Emil's story

Finding an erotic identity beyond relationship patterns

The conSensuality pathway

1.

Free clarity call of up to 30 minutes. This is a relaxed, no-obligation chance for us to connect online - for you to ask questions and for me to make sure I’m able to offer what you’re looking for.

2.

Introductory 3-hour online coaching session. We’ll put practical foundations in place to create connection with your own body, build our working connection, and prepare for our time in person together. And we’ll discuss in more detail what you want to explore in the Immersive.

3.

1-day Immersive in person. This is where we get to work together body to body. The day is split into 2 3-hour sessions, with a break in the middle. Each session is gently guided, and personalised to help you maximise your learning and experience.

2 weeks after your Immersive we'll check in with an online Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. This is an opportunity to share feedback, once you've had time to integrate our work. We'll reflect on what you're taking away from your experience, as well as discussing any further support you may want.

Each session includes:

Structured practices to open connection with your body and with mine, and explore your desires

Time to explore touch and the body in ways which are tailored for you

Reflection time to help integrate your experiences and learning

What does conSensuality cost?

FREE
£

Clarity Call of up to 30 minutes

£

Confirms your introductory online coaching session

£

Due after your online session, confirms your in-person Immersive

Total cost: £650

Take the next step...

towards meeting your authentic erotic self - book your free clarity call with me:

After the introductory online session either of us can choose not to continue and you will have no further commitment or charge. After the online session we will confirm our agreement to book the in-person Immersive. Each staged payment is non-refundable once paid.

Prices shown apply if you work with me in London or Edinburgh and include costs for the dedicated venue we will work in which I hire from a trusted professional colleague. If you work with me at my home base near Findhorn, Scotland, there is a reduction of £160 on the final payment. The Immersive is non-residential.

What is a gay sacred intimate, and am I one?

A gay sacred intimate is sometimes described as a professional who uses his own body to help others access the joy and power of erotic energy. The term was coined in the 1970s by one of my teachers, Joseph Kramer, founder of Sexological Bodywork.

Michael Dresser 1

Although I don’t define myself as a gay sacred intimate, conSensuality Immersives do provide a professionally held learning environment, in which you can explore your sexual self, and practice your erotic skills, body to body with another man. It's somewhere outside the potentially tricky environment of a hook-up, or the patterns of a relationship, where you can try things that might feel unfamiliar, sensitive or vulnerable - without shame or judgement.