conSensuality

Agreements

This is the most important page!

This might look like a page with a lot of text. But agreements are the most important part of any interaction. They create consent, and help both of us to stay safe, and clear about what is and isn't possible. Here are some of the key things for you to consider before you choose this sensual gay coaching pathway with me:

What conSensuality is:

conSensuality sensual gay coaching is a boundaried, guided space to explore a number of clear, defined experiences of intimate interactive touch and connection. This is done through structured hands-on exercises and play segments, and supported by discussion and sharing. The pathway uses the Wheel Of Consent as a container for experience, learning, and safety.

Sensuality, sexuality, pleasure, and arousal are all welcome in these sessions.

Interactions may include two-way erotic, non-genital and/or genital touch within clear limits and agreements made during each session. Learn more about what happens.

What conSensuality is not:

This work does not constitute or imply:

  • A sex hookup
  • An erotic 'happy ending' massage
  • An ongoing personal relationship with me outside the session space
  • Any guarantee of ongoing work with me beyond these defined sessions

Safety, limits and boundaries:

I hold the container of these sessions in service to supporting your experience and learning. And I will also look after and honour my own needs and limits.

In order to allow for as much safety and intimacy as possible the sessions are informed by authentic choice for both of us. You can stop or change your mind about anything we are doing at any time, and I can too.

This means there may be times when I am not willing or able to consent to, or continue with, a particular request or interaction - even if it is something we have previously done. And I will honour any similar choices you make from moment to moment.

The choice to stop or change:

Because the heart of this work relies on authentic intimacy I will only embark on the pathway with you, or move beyond Part 1, if it feels right for both of us, and if I feel sure both of us have the capacity to do so.

If either of us choose not to continue the pathway after Part 1 you will have no further commitment or charge.

In any session both of us can choose to stop or change what is happening at any time if we are not comfortable, without the need for explanation.

Sexual health:

Sexual health and safety is vital for both of us. Working in a way which can include physical intimacy is not just about the two of us - it impacts everyone else that each of us may share intimate body space with.

I undergo regular sexual health screening and checkups. I request that, if this is not already part of your self-care, you access sexual health screening services during the month prior to our in-person sessions, and inform me of any results which may impact our work together.

Want to work with me in a different way?

I offer conSensuality sensual gay coaching as a pre-defined package only. I do not offer interactive erotic touch in one-off sessions, and I do not offer alternatives or modifications to the package structure outlined here.

If you'd like to work with me in a different way, over a fewer number of sessions, or in a less interactive way, take a look at the menu for some of my other coaching options.

Personal information

All personal information you provide me with is confidential and will not be shared with any third parties.

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Begin your journey...

The first step on your conSensuality journey is a free, informal online call with me...