consensuality gathering

A conscious touch and intimacy retreat for men

Frustrated by apps and hookups as a way to try and explore your desires in a safe, meaningful way?

Longing to learn more about intimacy body to body with other men, but unsure how?

Are you called to explore consensual sensuality with an intimate group of like-minded men?

Touch, pleasure and safety can feel like a tricky combination for many men - especially in group settings. This gathering is a chance to try something different; it's not a sex party, and it's not about hooking up in order to get off...

This is a unique opportunity for you to reset your relationship with consent and sensuality.

Learn and practice how to:

  • be touched exactly the way you want
  • touch another the way you want
  • offer your body as a gift with full willingness
  • offer your service for another’s pleasure
  • welcome and honour your limits
  • stop when you’ve had enough

What is conSensuality?

An interactive, learning experience for gay, bi or curious men, informed by sensuality, safety and choice

Hands-on coaching to help you develop your intimate skills and confidence when you’re with another man

Safely structured and guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires

Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment

What is this gathering?

A conscious sexuality workshop space for up to 8 gay, bi or curious men to explore trust, intimacy and touch together.

Based on the 4 dynamics of touch that are the foundation of my one-to-one conSensuality coaching immersives, this carefully nurtured, and nuturing, group process is an opportunity for you to:

  • Access this life-changing relational work with me if you’re on a budget
  • Share experiences, and benefit from the wisdom of others in a small group setting
  • Connect with other men who share your interest in learning how to be more conscious and consenting about touch and pleasure.

This gathering is about learning how to build intimate trust – with your own desires, with your own boundaries, and in relationship with another man’s body.

This is not like a typical workshop. It’s important this space is the right space for everyone in it. And getting things right takes time and care.

This gathering is a calling – it won’t run until the men who are called to it are ready to come together.

If you feel drawn to be part of it your first step is to register your interest below.

“Pleasure, nakedness, arousal, and your authentic self are all welcome in this space we create together”

Michael Dresser

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"

Huw, England

This gathering is for you if you...

Are looking for a gay conscious sexuality workshop, which has choice and safety built in

Want to learn or practice skills for consenting, sensual, and intimate interactions with other men in a hands-on way

Have a curiosity to learn about your own desires in a respectful interactive learning container

Don’t have a partner to explore with, or don't want to use hook-ups to practice intimacy and relating skills

Curious?

Register your interest here

You don't need to be ready right now. You don't even need to be 100% sure. You just need to be curious about this opportunity.

Registering your interest here won't commit you to anything but it will let me start the process of bringing together the right group of men.

Are you one of them?

Got more questions about the specifics of what’s involved? Here’s what I can tell you at the moment: