What is conSensuality?
An interactive, learning experience for gay, bi or curious men, informed by sensuality, safety and choice
Hands-on coaching to help you develop your intimate skills and confidence when you’re with another man
Safely structured and guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires
Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment
What is this gathering?
A conscious sexuality workshop space for up to 8 cisgender* men who identify as gay, bi or curious to explore trust, intimacy and touch together.
Based on the 4 dynamics of touch that are the foundation of my one-to-one conSensuality coaching immersives, this carefully nurtured, and nuturing, group process is an opportunity for you to:
- Access this life-changing relational work with me if you’re on a budget
- Share experiences, and benefit from the wisdom of others in a small group setting
- Connect with other men who share your interest in learning how to be more conscious and consenting about touch and pleasure.
This gathering is about learning how to build intimate trust – with your own desires, with your own boundaries, and in relationship with another man’s body.
This is not like a typical workshop. It’s important this space is the right space for everyone in it. And getting things right takes time and care.
This gathering is a calling – it's about drawing the right group of men together at the right time.
If you feel drawn to be part of it your first step is to register your interest below.
*This is an event for cis(gender) men - those who identify as men, and were assigned male at birth.
“Pleasure, nakedness, arousal, and your authentic self are all welcome in this space we create together”

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"
Huw, England
This gathering is for you if you...
Are looking for a gay conscious sexuality workshop, which has choice and safety built in
Want to learn or practice skills for consenting, sensual, and intimate interactions with other men in a hands-on way
Have a curiosity to learn about your own desires in a respectful interactive learning container
Don’t have a partner to explore with, or don't want to use hook-ups to practice intimacy and relating skills
Curious?
Register your interest here
You don't need to be ready right now. You don't even need to be 100% sure. You just need to be curious about this opportunity.
Registering your interest here won't commit you to anything but it will let me start the process of bringing together the right group of men.
Are you one of them?
Got more questions about the specifics of what’s involved? Here’s what I can tell you at the moment: