Foundations For Intimacy

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Gay intimacy coaching with a difference! Learn 4 foundational approaches that will help you improve intimacy, and have more mutually satisfying interactions.

My approach to gay intimacy coaching is less about focusing on sexy techniques, and more on creating a deeper understanding, in your body, of giving and receiving.

Foundations For Intimacy provides a safe space for you to get back to basics. Learn and practice approaches which will fundamentally improve the quality of your connection with others - from the bedroom to the boardroom!

This simple, powerful approach to relating (anchored in the Wheel Of Consent) has been described as radical and life-changing by many of my clients.

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Is it for you?

You’ll benefit from this work if you’ve ever felt confused or disappointed by gay sex, relationships, or intimacy, and want to understand how to improve that.

If you don’t have a regular partner this is an opportunity to learn and explore in an environment which isn’t driven by sex or erotic expectation.

Essential skills you’ll learn:

Working with me one-to-one online allows you to learn from the safety and comfort of your own home, without the added pressure that can come with mutual touch - but the skills you’ll learn are fully transferable!

  • Improve your skills in noticing and expressing your desires
  • Discover how the 4 different experiences of giving and receiving feel in your own body
  • Differentiate between ‘want to’ and ‘willing to’ - and practice staying responsible for your own limits
  • Explore one-to-one relating and intimacy in a safe environment where sex isn’t the goal

Want to  include mutual touch in your learning? Foundations For Intimacy forms the first part of conSensuality.  This is my in-person, hands-on coaching package for men who want to explore or experience their erotic self, intimacy and touch with another man.

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If you want to be a better lover you need to understand your own desires first

gay intimacy coaching

"Michael was able to quickly create a safe and comfortable environment over our sessions, and tailor his suggestions to my needs. I learnt a great deal in quite a short time"

Bradley, England

Learn Foundations For Intimacy with me

Foundations For Intimacy takes place online over 3 x 2-hour sessions. Total cost is £240. Scroll down to take your next step.

Session 1 – Waking Up Desire

In this first clothed online session we’ll start to gently explore the impulses for sharing connection, noticing and expressing desires, as well as waking up sensation in the body.

Session 1 – Giving & Receiving

In this second clothed online session we’ll continue to expand the practice of connection, discovering the four types of interaction which form the foundations of giving and receiving. 

Session 3 - Pleasure Principles

This final clothing optional online session offers the chance to deepen our exploration of the four types of interaction, in the context of pleasure.

More ways to learn:

Touching For Pleasure

Discover the secrets of touch and sensation you were never taught. This powerful practice will change the way you feel, and unlock your connection with what feels good.

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Discovering Desire

Take your first steps towards understanding what feels good to you

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conSensuality

Guided one-to-one retreats for men who want to explore safe, meaningful intimacy with another man

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The Joy of Touch – for couples

A simple, illuminating practice for couples to improve touch and communication – so you can BOTH get a touch experience you really enjoy

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Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

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