The Joy of Touch – for couples

Online learning options available

A simple, illuminating practice for couples to improve touch and communication – so you can BOTH get a touch experience you really enjoy

Enjoy touch more, and bring the joy of touch (back) into your relationship!

Is touch with your partner stuck in a rut, disappointing, or boring? Do you find it hard to tell them when you’d like touch to stop or change?

The Joy Of Touch is a hands-on, practical alternative to traditional gay couples coaching.

Learn a simple practice, and tools that will help you notice, and communicate, what feels good for each of you, so you can both enjoy touch together.

This practice is win-win – eliminate the guesswork when it comes to pleasing your partner… and get to be touched the way you really want.

Watch the video to learn more.

Is it for you?

This is for you if you’re a couple and:

  • You want to improve your relating, but don't want traditional talk-based gay couples coaching
  • Touch in your relationship has become stuck in a rut or disappointing and you want to change that
  • You’d like to get better at knowing how your body wants to be touched
  • You want to learn to communicate better to your partner about the touch you like
  • You’re tired of trying to be a mind-reader when touching your partner
  • You’d like to learn a fun way to practice and enjoy touch together

Imagine being able to to choose touch which feels ‘Wow’, instead of just putting up with ‘Meh’

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create a more harmonious relationship"

Jez, Scotland

mindful gay sex coach couples coaching

"Wonderful and insightful...I finally was able to discover the kind of touch and pace of touch I like, and need, in order to experience pleasure"

Alberto, USA

Learn it with me

Based on practices from the Wheel Of Consent, the heart of this practice is about creating the opportunity to bring full focus to your body and your desires. To experience how it feels when you don’t have to reciprocate or worry about your partner, but can simply enjoy receiving touch the way YOU want to. For this reason the practices in these sessions concentrate on one-way exchanges, rather than mutual ones.

 

More ways to learn:

Touching For Pleasure

Discover the secrets of touch and sensation you were never taught. This powerful practice will change the way you feel, and unlock your connection with what feels good.

Discover more

Discovering Desire

Take your first steps towards understanding what feels good to you

Discover more

conSensuality

Guided one-to-one retreats for men who want to explore safe, meaningful intimacy with another man

Discover more

Foundations For Intimacy

Learn 4 foundational approaches to improve intimacy, and have more mutually satisfying interactions.

Discover more

Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

Discover more