Touching For Pleasure

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Discover the secrets of touch and sensation you were never taught. This powerful practice will change the way you feel, and unlock your connection with what feels good.

Do you want to enjoy gay touch, pleasure, or connection more?

We tend to think of touch and pleasure as being inextricably linked with sex. Which can make them feel tricky to navigate.

Touching For Pleasure is a step-by-step guided touch practice which will change how you feel – literally.

Starting with the touch basics most of us were never taught, this simple, powerful practice offers the key to becoming more connected with yourself, with what you want, and with what feels good.

It’s also the first step towards having more engaged and enjoyable touch-based interactions and relationships with others.

Watch the video to learn more.

Is it for you?

This is for you if you’ve ever

  • Wanted to enjoy gay touch more, or found interactive touch challenging
  • Lost connection with sensation or pleasure
  • Struggled to trust or value your own impulses or desires.

This learning pathway is a wonderful starting point to (re)build intimacy, trust and enjoyment in your own body without needing a partner.

Essential skills you’ll learn:

Through a mix of guided practice, theory and discussion you’ll learn essential skills to:

  • Understand what’s happening in your body when you touch
  • Develop a personal practice to help you experience sensation, and enjoyment, in your own skin in a way that you can access any time you choose.
  • Increase your capacity to notice your desires
  • Get clearer about what you do and don’t want, and make choices about that
  • Explore your relationship with pleasure when there’s no-one else involved

The focus of touch in these sessions is non-erotic but what you’ll learn is fully transferable! Learning how to touch for pleasure is an essential first step in building a more enjoyable self-pleasure practice. And it can help you create more pleasurable sexual and intimate interactions too.

The most important thing about touch is not the touch itself. It’s being able to choose what you really want.

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"I really enjoyed being introduced to this subtle and powerful process that woke up my senses and brought me deeply into my body"

Neil, England

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