About you
Hands-on sex, intimacy and pleasure coaching with me is something we create together. I bring my expertise and experience - and you do too! Here are some of the reasons why what I offer might be what you're looking for, and some of the things that will ensure you get the most out of the experience.
If you’re like most gay, bi, or gay-curious men, you’ve probably never been taught how to truly be intimate — emotionally, physically, or erotically.
For many of us, sex has become the main language we use to try to create intimacy, but deep down, we often long for something deeper…
Connection.
I help men explore what’s possible beyond the patterns they’ve always known.
This journey often looks different from what you might expect — because for most of us, there’s no roadmap for the kind of connection, confidence, and pleasure we’re capable of experiencing.
The men I work with are often surprised by how much they discover about themselves — not just in their sex lives, but in their relationships, confidence, and overall sense of self.
Here’s what tends to help my clients get the most out of working with me:
- Curiosity - about yourself, your desires, and what else might be possible for you.
- Openness - to experiences you may not have imagined yet, and to finding new layers in things that feel familiar.
- Desire to explore - stepping into new territory because you feel a pull to, not because you feel you “should.”
- Trusting your own expertise - you've known your body longer than anyone else, so you know it best! If you're expecting me to give you all the answers it's probably not going to be a good fit.
- Comfort with a little edge - knowing that growth often happens just outside your comfort zone, and trusting that we’ll create enough safety for you along the way.
- Commitment to practice - if you’ve ever done sport, yoga, meditation, music, or some other discipline you’ll be familiar with the benefits of practice. If you’ve never had a regular practice, all you need is a willingness to show up consistently for yourself.
Our work together is about more than just improving your sex life — it’s about opening the door to deeper intimacy, fuller self-expression, and the kind of connection you’ve been craving but might not yet know how to reach.