You wouldn't get fit just by talking about it...
Why would your love life be any different?
I’m Michael Dresser, one of the UK's most unique gay sex and intimacy coaches.
Connection is what many people really want from sex and intimacy.
My practical, hands-on coaching helps you learn new approaches for navigating connection, pleasure, and relating, when you’re body to body with another man.
Build your confidence with
Desire
Identifying and following what you want
Touch
Connecting to sensation and exploring how to feel
Pleasure
Discovering and trusting what you enjoy
Communication
Navigating desire, touch and pleasure with another man
I work with 4 touch dynamics and 3 types of touch, combining years of training with intuitive sensitivity to create spaces with safety built in.
I'm based near the Scottish Highlands in the UK, offering sessions there, as well as Edinburgh, Belfast, London and online.
Choose how you want to work with me
I offer 3 different types of session pathway. Choose the one which suits your needs best:
Supported self-study
Online coaching programmes. Focus on building a better relationship with pleasure in your own body
Hands-on personal coaching
In-person immersive days. Focus on learning and practicing new approaches to touch, communication and relating when you’re body to body with another man.
Experiential play
In-person half days. Focus on experiencing and exploring pleasure, connection and closeness in a playful one-to-one space.
Why work with with me?
In-person immersive coaching with me offers a unique opportunity for hands-on learning through experiencing:
Interested? Take your next step...
If you haven't worked with a hands-on gay sex and intimacy coach like me before it's completely natural to feel a mix of curiosity, uncertainty and excitement when considering it!
That's why I offer a free informal video call of up to 30 minutes - it's an opportunity to chat with me and ask questions, with no obligation.
Who do I work with?
If you're single...
I offer a safely held space where you can learn and practice new ways of intimate relating, body to body with me as your practice partner, guide and support.
If you're a couple...
I offer a neutral, guided space where you can learn new ways to communicate and create mutually satisfying interactions with each other.
You'll see me use the words ‘gay’, ‘man’ and 'male' on this site because they’re common terms many people I work with search for when looking for support around intimacy, touch, pleasure or sex.
And I know all those words can mean very different things for different people - my own relationship with them is not fixed.
I work mainly with people who identify as male in some way, but however you describe yourself, you are welcome here – and I hope I may be able to support you.
What is mindful sex coaching?
Mindful gay sex and intimacy coaching is about becoming more present and authentic in your intimate and erotic experiences. I can help you with connection to self, confidence with what you want, improved relationships, deeper pleasure, better sex ... and much more.
"My work with Michael was transformative. Michael's great skill lies in his intuitive sense and our work together provided a gateway to a deeper connection in my body / mind"
"I can't imagine having made a better choice with my weekend. Your coaching allowed impressive learning and growth in such a short time"
If you want to feel good - learn how to feel
Tips to help you improve your pleasure, intimacy, and sex
4 steps to create intimacy through non-sexual touch
Touch and sex are not the same thing – although they often get conflated. Follow these 4 steps to create more intimacy using touch that’s sensual but non-sexual.
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Enjoy gay touch more – why touching for pleasure can be harder than it sounds
Find out why touching another man can feel so complicated, and get 5 simple tips for how you can experience more pleasure when you’re touching
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What’s a bossy massage – and why is it so liberating?
This is not massage as you know it! Find out more about this deeply nourishing way to receive touch – where your pleasure is the only focus, and your body is the only expert!
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Building pleasure awareness
You might be surprised that the key to having more pleasure is not to learn more strokes or techniques, but to pay more attention. Find out why.
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Navigating gay desire
The world is full of messages telling gay guys to minimise or hide their desires. But getting what you want literally makes you feel good, so here’s how you can start to change the script
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Want to change your relationship with gay porn?
Gay porn addiction is a controversial subject. With little scientific research available on whether it even exists, learn more about why your body could be the best place to start if you want a reset
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So, what is gay sex anyway?
For men who are attracted to other men sex can mean many different things to many different people. If you feel challenged or confused by it I’m here to help…!
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Touching for pleasure
It can be harder than you might think to enjoy the experience of touch. Find out why, and what you can do to bring more pleasure to your touch
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How you can make better gay sex happen
Learn about one of the biggest myths, how you can change your approach, and some of the essentials you need for better gay sex
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5 essential masturbation techniques for men
What if self-pleasure is actually the key to better sex? If you want to have better partner sex, it definitely pays to get better at solo sex first, and these essential tips can help you.
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I also offer non-erotic coaching for help navigating interactions and relationships with family, friends, partners, even work colleagues: www.wheelofconsent.coach
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