There's often a lot of pressure for sex and intimacy between men to look a certain way, with a focus on erections, ejaculation, and penetration.
If that works for you, great. But for many men that feels unsatisfying or frustrating.
Another way is possible...
Instead of trying to fuck harder, and longer what if the route to better gay sex and intimacy was through learning how to connect truer, and deeper?
Change what's not working for you
I support gay, bi, queer and questioning men who are experiencing challenges with:
Sex with men
Enjoy touch-based giving and receiving more
Intimacy
Access deeper and more fulfilling connections
Relationships
Move beyond limiting patterns of relating
Masturbation
Build a better relationship with pleasure in your own body
Coaching with me is...
a unique opportunity for hands-on learning through experiencing it in your body
Honed over more than a decade of ongoing training and practice, my work is a unique blend of Sexological Bodywork, Wheel Of Consent, and Sacred Intimacy.
I work with 4 touch dynamics and 3 types of touch, combining years of training with intuitive sensitivity to create spaces with safety built in.
I'm based in Hastings on the south coast of England, a short distance from London, offering sessions there, as well as online, London, Belfast and the rest of the UK.
What's possible with me?
You've probably got questions! Find out more about the different ways you could work with me, what they involve, and how that could transform your (love) life:
Interested? Let's talk...
If you haven't worked with a hands-on gay sex and intimacy coach like me before it's completely natural to feel a mix of curiosity, uncertainty and excitement when considering it!
That's why I offer a free informal video call of up to 30 minutes - it's an opportunity to chat with me and ask questions, with no obligation.
Curious? Try a taster...
3 easy ways you can explore some of what I offer, and get a flavour of my style and approach.
Connect with sensation, and build awareness of what feels good in your own skin with this 10-minute guided audio meditation
A fun way to get to know yourself and your partner, explore the touch you enjoy, and discover what turns you on
Discover 5 practical steps to help you create and heighten arousal in your body with this 10-minute video guide
You'll also get more tips and updates from me direct to your inbox. If you decide later it's not for you it's very easy to unsubscribe.
Who do I work with?
If you're single...
I offer a safely held space where you can learn and practice new ways of intimate relating, body to body with me as your practice partner, guide and support.
If you're a couple...
I offer a neutral, guided space where you can learn new ways to communicate and create mutually satisfying interactions with each other.
You'll see me use the words ‘gay’, ‘man’ and 'male' on this site because they’re common terms many people I work with search for when looking for support around intimacy, touch, pleasure or sex.
And I know all those words can mean very different things for different people - my own relationship with them is not fixed.
I work mainly with people who identify as male in some way, but however you describe yourself, you are welcome here – and I hope I may be able to support you.
"My work with Michael was transformative. Michael's great skill lies in his intuitive sense and our work together provided a gateway to a deeper connection in my body / mind"
"I can't imagine having made a better choice with my weekend. Your coaching allowed impressive learning and growth in such a short time"
If you want to feel good - learn how to feel
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I also offer non-erotic coaching for help navigating interactions and relationships with family, friends, partners, even work colleagues: www.wheelofconsent.coach
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