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A mix of video and audio resources to help you learn at home, as well as tips and discussion to help you navigate touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating.

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3 Components of Pleasure

Pleasure isn’t something someone can give you – it happens in your body as a combination of 3 elements. Find out what these are and how you can use them to increase your pleasure.

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Receiving – Explained

Think receiving is just about something coming towards you? Learn how you can also receive by taking action. Based on 2 of the 4 dynamics of the Wheel Of Consent

giving

Giving – Explained

Think giving means you have to be doing? Learn how you can give without taking action. Based on 2 of the 4 dynamics of the Wheel Of Consent.

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The 4 Experiences of Giving & Receiving

Learn about 4 different kinds of giving and receiving. And the 2 essential questions that will help you understand which one you’re doing.

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Communication – How To Ask For What You Want

It’s great to know what you want, but you also need to know how to communicate it clearly. Learn 3 ways to ask effectively for what you want.

Stop Doing, Start Choosing

When touch is on offer we tend to think of the touch itself as the thing to focus on. But the process happening behind the scenes is not actually about the touch at all.