Something is calling you...
Maybe it's the gap between what hook-ups offer and what you're actually longing for.
Maybe it's a curiosity about your own body — your desires, your pleasure, your edges — that you haven't yet found the right space to explore.
Maybe it's a desire to learn and practice skills for more enjoyable giving and receiving
This weekend is that space.
2.5 days at my home on the East Sussex coast, an easy journey from London.
A small group of men, carefully brought together. Good food, unhurried time, and the kind of body-to-body intimacy that apps were never designed to hold.
What happens here
You'll learn — through doing, not just talking — how to be with another man's body with confidence and care.
How to ask for exactly what you want. How to offer touch from genuine willingness rather than obligation. How to follow your own pleasure, honour your own limits, and be fully present with someone else's.
This is hands-on, body-based learning.
It's also uniquely transformative.
What makes this different
I’m inviting you into my home, not a workshop venue.
My husband cooks — delicious, chef-standard, nourishing, vegetarian food. Shared meals are part of how connection happens.
The group is intentionally small - there are six of you, which means you get my full attention and interaction — and you will be genuinely included and attended to.
The men themselves. I take real care curating who comes. You'll be with others who are in a similar place — curious, thoughtful, ready for something more honest than what the apps offer.
Where you'll sleep
If you choose to include accommodation you'll be staying at a hand-picked guesthouse (TripAdvisor’s ‘best of the best’) just a few minutes' walk from my home, in the heart of Hastings.
It's a beautifully kept Victorian townhouse: comfortable spaces, thoughtful details, and a genuine sense of calm. Somewhere welcoming for you to unwind, and have space to let the day settle after our time together.
Your own room and bathroom (no sharing). Your own space to breathe.
Accommodation for Friday and Saturday night is included in the price. You also have the option to book an additional night on Sunday if you’d prefer to give yourself a bit more space to unwind after the workshop finishes.
Schedule
Friday 19 March
Check in to your room from 15.00, then gather at my home from 17.00 for a shared evening meal. The first evening begins gently — an introductory session to start our journey together.
Saturday 20 March
A full day together. Shared breakfast, lunch and dinner, with group sessions in the morning, afternoon and evening. The day has its own rhythm — but there's also space to breathe within it.
Sunday 21 March
Shared breakfast and lunch. Morning and afternoon sessions, concluding with a shared evening meal together. Free to depart from 18.30.
For those choosing to stay Sunday night, my studio space will be open for a little more gentle, continued connection — unguided and unhurried, in whatever way feels right. Think quiet conversation, comfortable company, physical closeness, and the chance to let the weekend land.
Who is this for
Gay, bi, or curious cisgender* men who want something more than casual.
Men who are ready to explore intimacy with other men in a way that is conscious, embodied, and with safety built in.
Everything here moves at your pace. You get to choose all the touch that happens - you will never be asked to touch or be touched in any way you don't want. And slowing down or stopping is always welcome.
Pleasure, nakedness, arousal, and your full self are welcome here.
*Those who identify as men and were assigned male at birth.
What previous participants have said
"A uniquely safe experience. A beautifully held space with the gentlest facilitation. Precise, meaningful and gentle"
"As a bisexual man living a predominantly hetero life, this workshop allowed me the space to explore my sexuality in a way that has never been available to me before"
"Amazing. So beautifully tailored. Very clear communication and a fantastic energy. Felt very safe throughout. It is so individual... you will be seen and heard"
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Investment
This is small-group time with me — which means the depth, attention, and quality of the work is similar to my one-to-one coaching, but at almost half the cost. If you've looked at working with me individually and been unsure whether it's within reach, this weekend is worth considering.
Full retreat experience
Includes all retreat sessions, meals, and 2 nights accommodation
£495
Retreat and meals only
For local attendees or those arranging their own accommodation
£300
Payment plans
Available from £175/month when you register.
Ready to take the next step?
There are 6 places - a small gathering by design - and the right men will find them. I expect it to fill.
Registering is the first step - it costs nothing and commits you to nothing.
Once you register, I'll invite you to a free Clarity Call — a relaxed, personal chat with me where you can ask everything you want to ask, and we can both make sure this is the right fit before moving forward.
If something here has spoken to you, I invite you to listen to what you feel called to follow.
Register your interest below — it takes two minutes