Your sex coaching questions answered

Many people have questions about how mindful sex and intimacy coaching with me works, when they first find out about it. These are some of the most common things I've been asked. If your question isn't answered here you're welcome to contact me.

Michael Dresser

Michael Dresser – who am I?

I’m a body-based sex and intimacy coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, and Certified Wheel Of Consent facilitator. Unlike many traditional sex and intimacy coaches, my training and experience allows me to offer hands-on learning, which can include the whole body.

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How safe is mindful sex coaching?

Choice and spaciousness are at the heart of all my work with you. These foundational elements are the key to working safely and creating real and lasting change. Everything we do is led by your body and your needs.

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What if you’ve experienced trauma?

We all carry different levels of trauma when it comes to the body and emotions. Mindful sex and intimacy coaching is not specifically designed to work with serious trauma, but it can help you build a new way forward with your body and with relating.

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Coaching vs treatment – what’s the difference?

The desire to make some kind of a change is central to both treatment and coaching. The difference between them is really about the possibilities for learning and growing beyond the session itself.

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What’s the difference between learning & experiencing?

Mindful sex and intimacy coaching sessions with me involve a number of elements. Learning and Experiencing are two of the most important. But how do they differ?

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What’s involved in working with me?

Working with me is an journey that you and I take together, based on your needs. There are different elements that each of us bring to the process. Here are some of the important things to know about what you can expect.

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What are some of the tools I use?

I use a variety of different body-based tools and practices to support the work we do together. You can find out about some of these in more depth here.

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Are there any terms & conditions?

Clear agreements are an essential part of every relationship, including our working one. Please make sure you’ve read these terms & conditions carefully, and are willing to agree to them, before contacting me.

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Online or in-person coaching – which is better?

There are many ways self-touch, one-way touch, and two-way touch can combine with online coaching. Find out what the best options are for you.

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Why choose one-way touch sessions?

Some of the deepest experiences of pleasure and learning can happen when there’s no need to reciprocate – one-way touch sessions are a great way to facilitate this.

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What does sex and intimacy coaching cost?

I aim to structure the pathways to working with me as transparently as possible, to give you the best opportunity to feel secure and committed in your investment.

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Mindful sex coaching for couples

The skills you’ll learn with me in mindful sex and intimacy coaching for couples go far beyond the bedroom. Find out more about how you can work with me in partnership to improve your sex, intimacy and relationship.

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What are the benefits of a coaching package?

There are many benefits to sex and intimacy coaching that is consistent and committed. Here’s why a package of sessions with me is a great way to make the most of your investment.

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What professional ethics & protocols do I use?

It’s important the work we do together is as structured, honest, and safe as possible – for both of us. Find out about the important working protocols, as well as professional codes of conduct, which help to ensure this.

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Can you book a single session with me?

Working with me is about creating new approaches, re-wiring patterns, and building skills. Taking time is an essential part of this, so there are some parameters to what I offer.

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Personal mindful sex coaching

One-to-one mindful sex and intimacy coaching sessions with me are your opportunity to take your body on the journey of a lifetime. Find out more about all the different ways you can do this.

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Can I fix your sexual problems?

Many people try to fix their sexual problems by looking through too narrow a lens. Find out why I focus on recalibrating rather than fixing.

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Why choose self-touch sessions?

How much do you find pleasure in yourself when you’re pleasuring yourself? Learn how self-touch plays an integral part in developing a more mindful approach to sex and intimacy.

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Why choose two-way touch sessions?

Discover how interactive touch sessions can help you expand your capacity for physical relating and learn skills for more satisfying mutual touch experiences.

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Tailored coaching Intensives

The focus of every sex and intimacy coaching session with me is unique to you, even if it’s part of a package. But what if you’re looking for something that’s a bit more tailored?

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What is mindful sex?

What is mindful sex, and how can mindful sex coaching help you? Learn about this different approach to sex and intimacy, and try out some simple ideas to get you started…

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