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So, what is gay sex anyway?

For men who are attracted to other men sex can mean many different things to many different people. If you feel challenged or confused by it I’m here to help…!

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Touching for pleasure

It can be harder than you might think to enjoy the experience of touch. Find out why, and what you can do to bring more pleasure to your touch

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How you can make better gay sex happen

Learn about one of the biggest myths, how you can change your approach, and some of the essentials you need for better gay sex

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5 essential masturbation techniques for men

What if self-pleasure is actually the key to better sex? If you want to have better partner sex, it definitely pays to get better at solo sex first, and these essential tips can help you.

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Sexological Bodywork goes mainstream

As one of the few gay Certified Sexological Bodywork practitioners in the UK, I’ve been excited by a growing awareness of it (including Gwyneth’s Netflix series). Find out more about it, and how it can benefit you.

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Why sex requires more than just permission

Great sex requires more than just getting permission. Find out about the other essential intimacy dynamic we don’t even have a name for.

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Why is touch important?

Touch during sex often focuses mainly on the genitals. Learn why full body touch is essential for wellbeing, and an important gateway to a better experience of intimacy and sex.

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How to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need

From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!