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Building pleasure awareness

You might be surprised that the key to having more pleasure is not to learn more strokes or techniques, but to pay more attention. Find out why.

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Navigating gay desire

The world is full of messages telling gay guys to minimise or hide their desires. But getting what you want literally makes you feel good, so here’s how you can start to change the script

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Want to change your relationship with gay porn?

Gay porn addiction is a controversial subject. With little scientific research available on whether it even exists, learn more about why your body could be the best place to start if you want a reset

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So, what is gay sex anyway?

For men who are attracted to other men sex can mean many different things to many different people. If you feel challenged or confused by it I’m here to help…!

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Touching for pleasure

It can be harder than you might think to enjoy the experience of touch. Find out why, and what you can do to bring more pleasure to your touch

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How you can make better gay sex happen

Learn about one of the biggest myths, how you can change your approach, and some of the essentials you need for better gay sex

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5 essential masturbation techniques for men

What if self-pleasure is actually the key to better sex? If you want to have better partner sex, it definitely pays to get better at solo sex first, and these essential tips can help you.

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Sexological Bodywork goes mainstream

As one of the few gay Certified Sexological Bodywork practitioners in the UK, I’ve been excited by a growing awareness of it (including Gwyneth’s Netflix series). Find out more about it, and how it can benefit you.