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Why sex requires more than just permission

Great sex requires more than just getting permission. Find out about the other essential intimacy dynamic we don’t even have a name for.

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How to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need

From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!

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Presence

Erotic mindfulness is crucial for great sex! Discover why the best intimacy experiences happen when you’re fully present in each moment.

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How to tell if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something

It’s not what you say, it’s why you say it. Follow these simple steps and learn how to tell when to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something.

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The Happy Hypersexual

I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s third book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.

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Permission

Shame and judgement can play a big part in how gay men feel about sex and desire. Learn how to give yourself permission to move beyond that

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Pleasure

Did you know pleasure isn’t something anyone can give you? It happens in your own body. Discover how you can get more pleasure from gay sex.

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Getting Off – a review of Jason Armstrong’s second book

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.