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Pleasure

Did you know pleasure isn’t something anyone can give you? It happens in your own body. Discover how you can get more pleasure from gay sex.

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Getting Off – a review of Jason Armstrong’s second book

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

Need A Hand?

How will you celebrate International Masturbation Day? Find out how to go from pleasuring yourself to finding pleasure in yourself.

To Clench Or Not To Clench

Pelvic floor exercises are advocated by post-natal and Tantra sources alike as a failsafe way to improve performance – be it in the bathroom or the bedroom. But is all that squeezing really good for you?

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4 tips for better intimacy

Better intimacy happens when you’re able to feel more. Learn about 4 simple but effective ways you can improve the intimacy in your interactions.

All Change Please

The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?

Sound

If we find ourselves repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how we truly feel then sooner or later we’ll learn to stop listening to our body.

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Meet The Sexperts

There are thousands of sexuality professionals like me out there, across fields as diverse as bodywork, counselling, tantra and medicine. But where do you begin, if you want to find one?