conSensuality

VIP personalised coaching retreats

Tailored retreat space to explore gay sex, intimacy and relating

Imagine stepping out of the restrictions of your everyday life … and into a space of permission, freedom, connection, and intimacy with another man

Imagine the luxury of being able to slow down enough to truly feel your authentic physical pleasure  - without shame or judgement

Imagine a sanctuary which is just for you. Somewhere you can be nurtured, celebrated … and expand into your authentic erotic self

conSensuality retreats with me are all this, and more...

You're a very important person ... let me help you believe it

Deeply explore and expand your relationship with sex, intimacy, and connection in this unique VIP retreat space for gay, bi and curious men.

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Offered over either 3 or 4 days these residential retreats, one-to-one with me, are an incredible way to gift yourself space to be held, and time to be nourished.

What's involved?

You’ll get to experience your own personalised journey of discovery and growth, learning about your desires body to body with another man.

Anchored in the foundations and principles that inform my 1-day conSensuality immersives, these longer retreats are a chance to dive deeper into who you can REALLY be when you don’t have to worry about the world outside.

The extra spaciousness of a multi-day, residential retreat offers an incredible opportunity for you to be held and cared for, and to experience in a very tangible way that what you want really matters.

Your personalised retreat includes

Sensual indulgence, where you are the focus and your needs come first

Structured practices to open connection with your body, and explore your desires

Time to explore touch and the body, one-to-one with me, in ways which are tailored for you

Opportunities for guided reflection to help integrate your experiences and learning

Plenty of space to relax in nature, unwind, and be cared for and nourished

"Our work together has been the beginning of immersing me in an entirely new culture, a new language, and new ways of responding to the world. It is relief to come home to my body and find the capacity for pleasure and joie de vivre waiting for me there"

Colin, UK

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Do you yearn to come home to yourself? This is what ‘you-time’ is really all about.

What happens in your conSensuality personalised retreat?

Typically your retreat starts with your arrival in the afternoon, with time to unwind and settle in, before a delicious dinner.

  • On the first evening we’ll start by exploring your intentions for your retreat, connecting with each other through gentle, talk-based practices, and creating safety together for your journey.
  • The following day you’ll get to learn and experience the 4 dynamics and 3 types of touch. We’ll explore waking up desire, receiving pleasure, and giving pleasure, as foundations for connection and intimacy.
  • After this the retreat is guided by your desires, and whatever feels most valuable for you to explore, experience, or learn. We’ll co-create the journey together, in a format that’s tailored exclusively for you moment to moment, and I bring my guidance, experience, and body, in joyful service to you.
  • On your final morning there will be more practical time to deepen your experience and learning, before we close our journey together, and ensure you’re resourced to return to your world when you leave after lunch.

 

You can choose how clothed or unclothed you’d like the practical sessions to be.

Non-erotic, and erotic touch are both welcome.

You always get to decide what you want and don’t want, and there will be plenty of opportunities built into all sessions for you to pause, reflect, integrate what you’ve experienced, and choose what you want next.

Choice, safety and care are at the heart of your retreat experience.

Please also read the agreements for interactive erotic touch sessions with me.

Where do the retreats take place?

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Hosted at Phoenix Nest, near Brighton UK, conSensuality retreats take place at a private home and retreat space, belonging to one of my close colleagues, and dedicated to the work of embodiment, intimacy, and erotic learning.

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With the gentle hills of the South Downs on one side, and the sea on the other, hill walks, beaches, horses, sheep, and even two llamas, are all just a short stroll away.

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From the quiet, natural beauty of the location, to the nourishment of specially prepared healthy meals, everything is centred around helping you relax into the best version of yourself possible.

About the accommodation

We’ll work together in large, cosy and comfortable wooden cabin, surrounded by lush garden and beautiful views.

Sleeping accommodation is in the main house; you’ll have a private south-facing room, with a double bed and a desk.

There is a lovely spacious living room, decking area, and spaces in the garden to spend time in when we’re not in session, as well as a sauna.

Please note: there is a cat (called Sami) who lives in the house, however the bedrooms and the cabin are kept cat-free; also a royal python (called Syd) who lives in a vivarium in the house.

How much does it cost?

Choosing a conSensuality retreat with me is really about choosing to give yourself an amazing gift – the kind of gift you’re unlikely to get anywhere else. The cost reflects the deep level of personalised care and attention which you’ll receive in this transformational space.

Retreat over 3 days

(12 hours of session time, 2 nights accommodation)

£1,630

Retreat over 4 days

(18 hours of session time, 3 nights accomodation)

£2,250

Your accommodation, all meals, snacks, and refreshments are included. The venue will be dedicated to us for the duration of your retreat.

You’ll need to arrange your travel to and from the venue, which is less than 2 hours from London (by rail or road), and 15 mins from Brighton. Street parking is available outside the property.

Take your next steps...

Michael Dresser mindful gay sex intimacy coach London Edinburgh UK

Doing this work together is a very personal experience so it's important we're a good fit.  That's why I offer a free, no-obligation Clarity Call if we haven't worked together before.

This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

Use the form below to get in touch with me and start the process. Or click the button to schedule a time directly.

If you're ready to schedule your Clarity Call directly using my booking calendar:

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