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What Kind of Wanker Are You?

How much pleasure do you get from your self-pleasuring? If you’re looking for a better masturbation experience here’s how you can start…

Who Do You Love This Valentines?

Is self-pleasuring really such a poor substitute for a ‘real’ lover? Maybe all those valentine’s romantics are missing a bit of a trick…

The Space Time Continuum

During the festive season it’s all too easy to get lost in the holy trinity of consumerism, family, and overindulgence. So here’s a chance to reconnect with how it feels to feel.

Mind The Intimacy Gap

What’s the difference between touch and sex? In a hyper-sexualised world where touch is taboo, it’s not hard to see why so many people believe the two are inextricably linked.

Sexual Health: Are You Mything Out?

Where do you get your information from when it comes to healthy sex? And are you getting sex-fiction or science-fact?

The Naked Truth

Once we get beyond the inhibitors of shame and body image there are good reasons why spending time to allow our bodies to be naked actually makes us feel better.

Turn Yourself On, Switch Yourself Off

Most of us know that deep breathing can be a good way to relax. But did you know there’s a way to turbo-charge that relaxation process?

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Movement

Gabrielle Roth, founder of 5Rhythms, had the right idea when she observed that “the fastest way to still the mind is move the body”.