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If you find yourself repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how you truly feel then sooner or later you’ll learn to stop listening to your body.

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What Kind of Wanker Are You?

How much pleasure do you get from your self-pleasuring? If you’re looking for a better masturbation experience here’s how you can start…

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Why you don’t need a Valentines date to feel loved

Valentines day would have you believe the path to pleasure requires a partner. But who needs a lover when you can love yourself!

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Why getting naked can help you feel better

Once you get beyond the inhibitors of shame and body image there are good reasons why spending time naked actually makes you feel better.

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Gay touch relaxation – turn yourself on, switch yourself off

Many gay folks struggle with anxiety or stress – but did you know you can use touch to help your relaxation process?

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Movement

Embodied movement pioneer Gabrielle Roth had the right idea when she observed that “the fastest way to still the mind is move the body”

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What’s Your Language Of Love?

Good sex is supposedly all about the ‘language of love’. But when you get to the bedroom are you and your partner actually both speaking the same language?

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Breath

Paying attention to the breath can be an incredibly powerful way to bring you from your mind back to your body and sensation.