Resources to read
Gay sex resources. Browse my articles and blog posts below for tips and ideas on how you can improve touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating in your life...
The Happy Hypersexual
I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s third book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.
How pleasure can help shift shame
Shame and judgement can play a big part in how gay men feel about sex and desire. Learn how to give yourself permission to move beyond that
What is mindful sex?
What is mindful sex, and how can mindful sex coaching help you? Learn about this different approach to sex and intimacy, and try out some simple ideas to get you started…
How to create more pleasure during sex and intimacy
Did you know pleasure isn’t something anyone can give you? It happens in your own body. Discover how you can get more pleasure from gay sex.
Getting Off – a review of Jason Armstrong’s second book
Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.
To Clench Or Not To Clench
If you think pelvic floor exercises are just for women think again – they can be a great way for gay guys to improve bedroom performance. But is all that squeezing really good for you?
4 tips for better intimacy
Better intimacy happens when you’re able to feel more. Learn about 4 simple but effective ways you can improve the intimacy in your interactions.
All Change Please
The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?