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Gay sex resources. Browse my articles and blog posts below for tips and ideas on how you can improve touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating in your life...

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What’s Your Language Of Love?

Good sex is supposedly all about the ‘language of love’. But when you get to the bedroom are you and your partner actually speaking the same language?

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Breath

Paying attention to the breath can be an incredibly powerful way to bring you from your mind back to your body and sensation.

Mapping

Mapping is a great way of re-connecting the body with touch, and finding out what’s really there – or even what isn’t there!

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Mindful masturbation

Pleasuring yourself can be a conscious practice – in a similar way to the practice of mindful meditation, or yoga.

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Porn and fantasy

Overcome an unhealthy relationship with porn or fantasy through a gentle, non-judgemental body-based process.

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Conscious consent

In any exchange there’s a giver and a receiver, someone doing and someone being done to. But just because you’re doing doesn’t mean you’re giving!