More pleasure from sex and intimacy

You may be surprised to learn that nobody can 'give' you pleasure.  It's an experience that happens in your own body.

So if you want more pleasure during sex or intimacy the best place to start is with your own body.

The more you can slow down and relax, the better the pleasure gets

Most of us have had very little sex education, and even less pleasure education.

Yet a lot of people will say, when asked, that what they want from sex is more pleasure - and gay sex is no exception.

So what is pleasure, and what's the best way to go about getting more of it?

More communication equals more pleasure

Although you may not think it sounds very sexy, accessing more pleasure is very often about getting better at communication!

If you want someone to touch you the way you enjoy, it’s really helpful to be able to tell them what feels good.

That’s often the bit where many of us come unstuck! But it's where I can help.

How can you get more pleasure from sex?

When it comes to gay sex and intimacy, the more you can relax the more pleasure you will find.

The first step is to slow down, so you can notice and trust what you enjoy.  Then you can start to communicate it more.

There are also three elements that combine to create an experience of pleasure in your body when touch is involved.

Watch my video to find out more about them.

Some ways you can learn more about pleasure:

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Foundations For Intimacy

4 foundational approaches that will help you improve intimacy, and have more mutually satisfying interactions. Learn the essentials in these 3 online sessions.

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Pleasure In Yourself

A guided programme to help you (re)discover and connect with your own body. Learn and practice the simple, foundational skills for pleasure you never got taught in sex-ed classes!

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Touching For Pleasure

Discover the secrets of touch and sensation you were never taught. This simple, powerful practice will change the way you feel, and unlock your connection with what feels good.

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