conSensuality - with Michael Dresser

Emil’s story

gay tantra touch pleasure coaching

Emil wanted an alternative way to keep up with his partner's gay tantra explorations. Read what conSensuality touch and intimacy coaching with me offered him

Together for nearly two decades, Emil and his partner had a strong, committed life partnership, but over the years sex had become less of a priority for Emil, and they were struggling in the bedroom.

Their relationship was open, and although his partner enjoyed an active sex life outside it, exploring gay tantra, Emil felt he’d lost focus on his own erotic development. When they did have sex together it was frustrating – Emil felt stuck in old patterns, and unable to keep up with his partner’s new level of erotic fluency.

He didn’t feel comfortable going to the gay tantra workshops his partner attended, but he wanted to find a way to learn and practice new skills, without feeling inadequate, or putting the burden of responsibility on his partner.

Although I’m not a gay tantra teacher, the learning space we created together enabled Emil to start bringing more awareness to his own sensuality and sexual expression.

Having someone alongside with skills to support and guide him interactively, and permission to explore whatever he wanted, Emil was surprised by the range of his own erotic desires, which he’d never previously given much attention to. This ignited his excitement and curiosity to re-engage with his partner as a more equal lover.

"Michael has set me on a journey of deepening self-awareness and more meaningful physical relating ... this is so valuable"

 

What is conSensuality?

A 1.5-day interactive learning experience for gay, or gay-curious men, working one-to-one with me

Hands-on coaching to help you develop your erotic skills and confidence when you’re with another man

Structured, guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires

Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment