Confidence + Connection

5-month Coaching Programme

Become a better lover - For gay, bi and curious men ready to unlock deeper intimacy in their life

What if sex & relationship education looked like this?

Imagine learning about pleasure with a teacher you can touch.

Imagine a lover who’s also your guide - supporting you in discovering what feels good, what feels right, and what feels like you.

Start your journey - book a free Clarity Call with me now

Welcome to a unique 5-month, in-person coaching experience that brings body-based intimacy and erotic learning together

To become a better lover, you don’t need to learn a set of techniques. You need to unlock the real secrets of giving and receiving.

The best lovers aren’t the ones who know all the moves - they’re the ones who are deeply connected to their own pleasure, who can listen and respond to a partner’s desires, and who feel confident expressing what they want to give and receive.

This programme will help you deconstruct everything you think you know about intimacy and rebuild something richer, deeper, and more alive - starting from within.

This programme offers hands-on, body-to-body learning with a certified professional gay sex coach, in an affirming space where choice and safety are at the heart of your experience - a space designed for your growth, confidence, and true sexual expression.

Your body is the classroom

This isn't just talk. It's not a quick fix. It's not a fantasy. It's real practice, with real touch, and real transformation.

In this coaching programme you'll gain something rarely offered to men:

A regular space where nothing is expected of you, and you don’t have to perform
A place where you can explore and experiment without shame or judgement
A chance to discover what you enjoy - or don’t enjoy - without needing to “get it right”

In short, this is a space where you have full permission to meet and express your full, authentic erotic self.

What’s included each month:

3 hours of in-person, hands-on coaching (one 3-hour or two 90-minute sessions)

Guided home practices between sessions

A monthly online call for practical and emotional support

This is for you if:

You wish you could have more intimate connection than meaningless sex

You struggle to communicate your needs or boundaries in intimate relationships

You lack confidence to enjoy your body more, and want to change that

You’re fed up with getting in your head, and worrying about performance

What you'll gain

More confidence in your body and desires

Tools to navigate physical intimacy with clarity

A deeper, more honest relationship with pleasure

Your programme guide: I'm Michael Dresser - a gay sex and intimacy coach with over a decade of experience delivering hands-on learning, with consent, safety and choice at the heart.

Learn more about me

The journey: what we’ll explore together

Here's what you can expect from this comprehensive gay sex coach-ing programme:

Part 1

Building Connection (Months 1 - 3)

Lay strong foundations for emotional and physical intimacy.

We’ll start slow, building trust, with opportunities to explore sensual, touch - without pressure.

You'll develop core skills:

Touch & Sensation – learn how to feel, and how to give and receive
Desire – identify and follow what you really enjoy
Boundaries – practice setting limits with confidence
Communication – express how you feel, and what you want – or don’t want!

Part 2

Bedroom Confidence (Months 4 - 5)

Step into your erotic power.

We’ll gently open the door to more sexual expression, including the possibility of erotic or genital touch – at your pace.

This is your opportunity to explore deeper physical intimacy with another man in a space free of expectation or performance pressure.

You’ll build:

Erotic Fluency – Explore what truly turns you on, with clear communication
Pleasure Skills – Explore full-body enjoyment beyond genitals and penetration
Confidence – Let go of self-doubt and discover your unique way of being a lover

Learn the 3 keys to more fulfilling physical intimacy

1. Connect

with Your Desires

Understand what you want and how to ask for it

2.Trust

Your Limits

Honour your boundaries and feel empowered to speak up for them

3. Communicate

Clearly

Navigate physical intimacy with ease and confidence

Why invest in a 5-month programme?

Because you’ve already invested in your wellbeing - therapy, holidays, massages, the gym... and now it’s time to invest in your sexual and intimate wellbeing with the same care.

Because this isn’t a one-off fix or open-ended therapy. It’s a focused, personalised journey with a clear outcome: real skills, lasting change, and deeper confidence in your body and desires.

Because this work is about more than just sex. It’s about:

Discovering your potential for connection
Finding confidence with your body
Honouring your needs
Making pleasure a priority

Because this is a real commitment to your whole self

Over five months, you'll have the time, space, and support to:

Move at your own pace
Practice safely and consistently
Build real trust - with me, your body, and yourself

I’ll be your skilled, compassionate guide - alongside you every step of the way. Someone you can trust with your vulnerability, your curiosity, and your joy.

Get ready to...

Feel more confident, present, and turned-on in the bedroom

Move beyond shame, anxiety, or disconnection around sex

Create real, lasting change - not just surface-level results

What does it cost?

Pay monthly over 5 months:

£252 p/m

Pay in full upfront:

£1134 (10% discount)

Try before committing: Start with one of my 90 minute taster sessions and the cost of this will be deducted from the total when you move into the full programme.

Read my booking terms & session agreements.

Please note: all in person coaching sessions take place at my home studio in Hastings. I’m not able to offer this programme in other locations. If you’d like to work with me in a deeper dive closer to where you are check out my Personal Retreats.

Ready to feel more confident, connected, and fully alive in your erotic life?

Book a free call with me

or choose a time-slot for your clarity call below

"Michael is very perceptive and supportive. He was able to quickly create a safe and comfortable environment over our sessions, and tailor his coaching to my needs. I learnt a great deal, and experienced an opening up of what had been very shut down!"

Benjamin, UK

Take your next steps...

Doing this work together is a very personal experience so it's important we're a good fit. That's why I offer a free, no-pressure Clarity Call if we haven't worked together before.

This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

Schedule a time below that suits you.