conSensuality - with Michael Dresser

Terry’s story

inexperienced gay virgin touch pleasure intimacy coaching

When Terry came out in his 60s he felt like an inexperienced gay virgin when it came to sex. Read what conSensuality touch and intimacy coaching with me was able to offer him...

Throughout his life Terry experienced attraction to other men, but never felt it was possible to acknowledge this, or act on his desires. He married young, and raised a family with his wife. But by his 60s his marriage was over, and he felt he could no longer hide or deny this part of himself.

Although it was a relief to be able to be honest about being gay, Terry also found it hard to know where to start when it came to gay sex. He described feeling like an inexperienced gay virgin – an awkward teenager when everyone else seemed to know what they were doing.

Hookups felt too intimidating for him, but he wanted to learn how to be sexually intimate with another man, and figure out what he did and didn’t like. Working with me enabled him to ask questions, and try things he was curious about, without embarrassment or feeling judged if they didn’t go as expected.

For the first time in his life Terry was able to explore his authentic sexual self in a space where he felt safe enough to truly be himself. Having his own erotic and learning needs attended to boosted not only his skills but his confidence.

“An unmissable experience…the best part was Michael’s willingness to listen and respond to my wants as we crafted our sessions together”

 

What is conSensuality?

A 1.5-day interactive learning experience for gay, or gay-curious men, working one-to-one with me

Hands-on coaching to help you develop your erotic skills and confidence when you’re with another man

Structured, guided space which is lovingly held, and non-judgemental, for you to learn about your desires

Somewhere supported for you to practice intimate touch in whatever way feels safe for you, moment to moment