michael dresser mindful gay sex intimacy coach london edinburgh scotland UK

Hi I’m Michael Dresser, I’m a sex and intimacy coach working with men who want to learn and explore themselves body to body with another man.

I’m doing a photoshoot with Chris Northey to get some new images for my website which show me working with a variety of different men in a relaxed, real context.

What I’m looking for

Most of my clients are guys mid-age to older, with diverse and real body shapes, and sizes. So that’s what I’d like to show in these images.

My work can happen in a variety of ways – clothed, partially clothed, or naked; sometimes it's erotic, sometimes not – so I want to reflect these different aspects of my work in these images.

The general feel will be intimate and sensual, rather than explicit or sexual. If genitals are included in the shots they won’t be the focus.

How we’ll probably work

My idea is to run through a few of the interactive practices I use with my clients – some of this will be talk-based, some of it will offer opportunities for:

  • you to be touched the way you want to be touched
  • or you to touch me the way you want to touch me

I’ll guide us through the process but the focus will always be on what you want.

Some of the time there may be the option for either or both of us to be naked.

Although the focus of touch will be sensual rather than sexual, it can include genital touch, if that’s something you’re comfortable with (and if you’re not that’s fine too).

Choice is a foundation of my work – so you’ll get to choose what you’re comfortable with at all times – how you want to touch, or be touched, and how clothed or unclothed you want to be. You can stop or change your mind at any point.

Where will the images be used?

I’ll mostly be using the images online - on my website, and in my promotional material, including on my social media channels. Occasionally I may use an image in printed material or advertising.

The images will only ever be used in the context of my professional work as a sex and intimacy coach.


If you have questions you’re welcome to contact me at info@michaeldresser.co.uk

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