Connect + Play

Personalised gay intimacy play experiences near London & Brighton

Tired of meaningless hookups?

Looking for physical connection where closeness matters as much as sex?

Want to explore playful sexuality without shame, pressure, or judgement?

What if casual play could feel different? No rush. No scripts. Just two men meeting with openness, curiosity, and desire.

gay intimacy play London Brighton Hastings

Often when we think we want sex, what we really want is intimacy. To be touched. Admired. To laugh with someone. To feel safe. To feel like someone really cares.

I’m Michael - your play companion.

Connect + Play sessions with me blend sensual exploration, tenderness, care, and consent.

A unique chance for two men to meet body-to-body and discover what intimacy can truly feel like.

Ready to explore intimacy beyond the swipe?

Let’s create something memorable - together.

What's a Connect + Play session?

90 minutes to 3 hours of connection

Gentle conversation to set intentions

Play, pleasure, and closeness - as much or as little erotic energy as feels right

Freedom to explore without performance pressure

Always guided by mutual consent and curiosity

What happens in a session is inspired by you and agreed on by both of us. That might look like:

Cuddling with quiet stillness

Being caressed or massaged

Sharing thoughts or feelings

Exploring each others’ bodies

Sexual interaction

(but it won't look like porn!)

Many other possibilities…

Nudity, erections, orgasms? Possible.

Shame, scripts, or expectations? Not here.

You bring your curiosity.

I bring my time, attention, and the gift of my body.

Together, we explore what’s possible.

What you'll find here

✔ Genuine, nurturing intimacy beyond hookup culture

✔ Touch, talking, playfulness, pleasure, and presence

✔ A safe, shame-free space to explore your desires at your own pace

What you won't find

✘ Scripts about “top” or “bottom” roles – penetration may be possible but it won’t be the focus

✘ Pressure to perform – ejaculation is welcome if it happens but it’s not required

✘ Quickie, anonymous encounters – this is about genuine mutual connection, not a tick-list

Who I work with

Anyone who defines as male seeking genuine, safe, and nurturing intimacy - gay, bi, straight, questioning. I welcome all bodies, all ages, all levels of experience.

We’ll align on our intentions before booking to make sure our time together is meaningful for us both.

Where are the sessions?

I offer Connect + Play intimacy sessions for gay, bi and curious men at my studio space in Hastings on the south coast of England – an easy connection to both London and Brighton.

Please note: I don’t offer Connect + Play as overnight sessions, or in any other location

Safety and consent

I’m a trauma-informed certified Sexological Bodyworker, Wheel of Consent coach, and Sacred Intimate.

Intimacy and consent are both about being present, and able to feel and communicate clearly. For this reason recreational drugs and alcohol are not welcome in these sessions.

In order to support a brave and vulnerable space, and to create as much safety as possible I do have some terms and conditions for these play sessions. You'll need to agree to these before booking.

Here are some of the key things to be aware of:

We can both pause or stop anything anytime
You can change your mind at any point - without needing to give a reason, and I can too
We’ll make clear agreements before anything happens
We may both bring our authentic desires in the moment, but my role is also to support your experience, as safely as possible, and my choices and actions will always be guided by that

Connect + Play session costs

90 mins:

£150

2 hours:

£200

3 hours:

£300

Read my booking terms and session agreements

Why book?

Because pleasure without pressure is rare.

Because intimacy without judgement is powerful.

Because you deserve connection where your desires are welcome, your boundaries are respected, and your pleasure can unfold naturally.

Want to play with me...?

Your first step is to fill in the form below so I know a little about what you're looking for. Once I receive your details I’ll contact you with next steps. Generally this will be to offer you some date options for a session.

Creating intimate connection is about creating trust so I’m happy to offer you a free Clarity Call if you want to ask any questions before booking.

This is something I may also request before confirming a booking if I need more information - to be sure I can offer what you’re looking for.

Start your journey - book a free Clarity Call with me now