What if casual play could feel different? No rush. No scripts. Just two men meeting with openness, curiosity, and desire.
Often when we think we want sex, what we really want is intimacy. To be touched. Admired. To laugh with someone. To feel safe. To feel like someone really cares.
I’m Michael - your play companion.
Connect + Play sessions with me blend sensual exploration, tenderness, care, and consent.
A unique chance for two men to meet body-to-body and discover what intimacy can truly feel like.
Ready to explore intimacy beyond the swipe?
Let’s create something memorable - together.
2 questions. Infinite possibilities...
How do you want me to touch you?
How do you want to touch me?
What's a Connect + Play session?
90 minutes to 3 hours of connection
Gentle conversation to set intentions
Play, pleasure, and closeness - as much or as little erotic energy as feels right
Freedom to explore without performance pressure
Always guided by mutual consent and curiosity
Nudity, erections, orgasms? Possible.
Shame, scripts, or expectations? Not here.
You bring your curiosity.
I bring my time, attention, and the gift of my body.
Together, we explore what’s possible.
What you'll find here
✔ Genuine, nurturing intimacy beyond hookup culture
✔ Touch, talking, playfulness, pleasure, and presence
✔ A safe, shame-free space to explore your desires at your own pace
✔ The power of intimacy without judgement
What you won't find
✘ Scripts about “top” or “bottom” roles – penetration may be possible but it won’t be the focus
✘ Pressure to perform – ejaculation is welcome if it happens but it’s not required
✘ Quickie, anonymous encounters – this is about genuine mutual connection, not a tick-list
This is for you if:
There’s something erotic you wish you could try with someone supportive
You avoid physical intimacy because you worry your body or desires will be judged
You long to feel more equal and connected with your intimate partners
You wish you could experience more physical intimacy without having to be sexual
What you'll gain
Dedicated time to put yourself first and be nurtured by another man
The rare chance for your pleasure to unfold naturally, without pressure
The nourishing feeling of your intimate needs and desires being centred and met
Who I work with
Anyone who defines as male seeking genuine, safe, and nurturing intimacy - gay, bi, straight, questioning. I welcome all bodies, all ages, all levels of experience.
We’ll align on our intentions before booking to make sure our time together is meaningful for us both.
Where are the sessions?
I offer Connect + Play intimacy sessions for gay, bi and curious men at my studio space in Hastings on the south coast of England – an easy connection to both London and Brighton.
Please note: I don’t offer Connect + Play as overnight sessions, or in any other location
Connect + Play session costs
90 mins:
£150
2 hours:
£200
3 hours:
£300
Please read my booking terms and session agreements before booking
"The experience you created last time meant so much and you really do have a special gift in what you do"
Marco, UK
"I must admit I was unsure about paying for this sort of thing but it meant I really got exactly what I wanted from the experience"
Eeshan, UK
"This experience really helped me understand my sexuality in a new way. Thank you for your gentleness!"
Grahame, UK
Want to play with me...?
Your first step is to fill in the form below so I know a little about what you're looking for. Once I receive your details I’ll contact you with next steps. Generally this will be to offer you some date options for a session.
Creating intimate connection is about creating trust so I’m happy to offer you a free Clarity Call if you want to ask any questions before booking.
This is something I may also request before confirming a booking if I need more information - to be sure I can offer what you’re looking for.