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Why sex requires more than just permission
Great sex requires more than just getting permission. Find out about the other essential intimacy dynamic we don’t even have a name for.
Read MoreTouch
Touch during sex often focuses mainly on the genitals. Learn why full body touch is essential for wellbeing, and an important gateway to a better experience of intimacy and sex.
Read MoreHow to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need
From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!
Read MoreHow to tell if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something
It’s not what you say, it’s why you say it. Follow these simple steps and learn how to tell when to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something.
Read MoreThe Happy Hypersexual
I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s third book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.
Read MoreGetting Off – a review of Jason Armstrong’s second book
Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.
Read MoreTo Clench Or Not To Clench
If you think pelvic floor exercises are just for women think again – they can be a great way for gay guys to improve bedroom performance. But is all that squeezing really good for you?
Read More4 tips for better intimacy
Better intimacy happens when you’re able to feel more. Learn about 4 simple but effective ways you can improve the intimacy in your interactions.
Read MoreAll Change Please
The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?
Read MoreSound
If you find yourself repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how you truly feel then sooner or later you’ll learn to stop listening to your body.
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