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How to book your place for conSensuality: The Gathering

I'm really looking forward to welcoming you to this small but perfectly-formed gathering of men!

Your payment will confirm your place.

Before you make your payment please take time to read and agree to our event terms, and group ground rules. The ground rules are an important first step in making sure our container is as safe as it can be for everyone.

When you submit your agreement you'll then receive an email with details of how to make payment (either by UK bank transfer, or PayPal).

Please now read the Booking T&C, and the Group Ground Rules below, and then complete the agreement form to progress your booking

Booking Terms & Conditions

Bookings are non refundable so please read these terms carefully prior to  booking. If you have any questions or concerns please contact me before you make your booking.

The intention of these terms is to keep the event both as safe and accessible as possible.

If you are unable to attend because of a positive COVID test I will refund you in full within 7 working days of receiving documented evidence of your positive test result.

If I cancel, you are refunded in full.

If I reschedule, you have the option to take either a full refund, or transfer your place to the new event date at the same price you have already paid.

Group Ground Rules

By booking and making payment you are confirming that you have read these group ground rules, and intend to abide by them during the event. We will also go over them as a group at the start of the retreat and I'll ask you for a visual indication of agreement at that time.

In order to maintain the safety of the group I reserve the right to ask you to leave if you consistently and deliberately ignore any of these rules. In this case no refund will be available.

 

  1. Confidentiality — outside the group, share only your own experience and learning; do not share the names or personal experiences of others in the group that could lead to others identifying them.
  2. Honour the feelings that arise in others by allowing them to feel without fixing or advising. Feelings are welcome and do not need to be justified or explained.
  3. When sharing, speak from your personal experience using ‘I’ statements (eg. I feel, I notice, I’m experiencing, etc.). This helps each of us to notice and take responsibility for our own experience, and to avoid speaking in generalized ways on behalf of people or groups.
  4. Group care — use the names and pronouns people request, and honour the lived experience of those in the group. Be willing to stay open and free of assumptions about people's identities and experiences (eg. regarding gender, race, sexual orientation, etc).
  5. Honour and respect others' choices, especially if they are requesting you to stop touch. Everything in this workshop is optional. You do not have to touch or be touched if you do not want to. You can choose to stop or change your mind at any point about anything.
  6. Group limits — the gathering will be sensual rather than sexual. There will be opportunities to explore unclothed and genital touch if that's something you want to do, but it's never required. Arousal and erotic expression is welcome, but we won’t be bringing an intention for orgasm or ejaculation.
  7. Drugs and alcohol - because intimacy is about feeling, you’re likely to get the most out of your experience if you're as present in your body as possible. For this reason this event is free from recreational drugs and alcohol.
  8. The following will not be tolerated: discrimination or harassment of participants or team members in any form, especially with regards to gender, race, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, age, religion, nationality, or social class.

 

Please complete this form to indicate your agreement to our event terms and ground rules. You'll then be emailed details of how to make payment and complete your booking.