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Gay sex resources. Browse my articles and blog posts below for tips and ideas on how you can improve touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating in your life...

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Getting Off – a review of Jason Armstrong’s second book

Read my in depth review for Undividing Lines Magazine of ‘Getting Off – The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual On PrEP’, the new book by Jason Armstrong, author of the groundbreaking ‘Solosexual – Portrait of a Masturbator’.

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To Clench Or Not To Clench

If you think pelvic floor exercises are just for women think again – they can be a great way for gay guys to improve bedroom performance. But is all that squeezing really good for you?

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4 tips for better intimacy

Better intimacy happens when you’re able to feel more. Learn about 4 simple but effective ways you can improve the intimacy in your interactions.

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All Change Please

The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?

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If you find yourself repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how you truly feel then sooner or later you’ll learn to stop listening to your body.

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What Kind of Wanker Are You?

How much pleasure do you get from your self-pleasuring? If you’re looking for a better masturbation experience here’s how you can start…

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Why you don’t need a Valentines date to feel loved

Valentines day would have you believe the path to pleasure requires a partner. But who needs a lover when you can love yourself!

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Why getting naked can help you feel better

Once you get beyond the inhibitors of shame and body image there are good reasons why spending time naked actually makes you feel better.

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