Resources to read

Gay sex resources. Browse my articles and blog posts below for tips and ideas on how you can improve touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating in your life...

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Gay touch relaxation – turn yourself on, switch yourself off

Many gay folks struggle with anxiety or stress – but did you know you can use touch to help your relaxation process?

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Movement

Embodied movement pioneer Gabrielle Roth had the right idea when she observed that “the fastest way to still the mind is move the body”

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What’s Your Language Of Love?

Good sex is supposedly all about the ‘language of love’. But when you get to the bedroom are you and your partner actually both speaking the same language?

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Breath

Paying attention to the breath can be an incredibly powerful way to bring you from your mind back to your body and sensation.

Mapping

Mapping is a great way of re-connecting the body with touch, and finding out what’s really there – or even what isn’t there!

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Mindful masturbation

Pleasuring yourself can be a conscious practice – in a similar way to the practice of mindful meditation, or yoga.

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