Gay sex & intimacy coaching online

Explore online coaching for deeper connection, pleasure and intimacy

While many of my sessions are in person - with opportunities to explore one-way or two-way touch - I know that's not the right fit for everyone.

That's why I offer online coaching options that support you to expand your capacity for personal growth, connection, and pleasure wherever you are in the world.

Whether you're looking to feel more connected to yourself, improve communication in your relationships, or explore pleaure in a supported, shame-free space - online coaching can be a transformative experience.

Why choose online coaching?

Online coaching gives you access to many of the foundational practices I offer - without leaving the comfort of your own space.

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  • No travel
  • No pressure to meet in person
  • Ideal if you’re not ready for physical contact, or we’re in different locations

Many people find that being in their own environment feels safer and more relaxed, which can support you to go deeper into the work.

How it works

Online coaching with me is about much more than just talking. You’ll come away with practical, embodied skills—not just ideas.

If you’re solo:

While we won’t explore touch between us, we’ll use a combination of empowering practices like:

  • Self-touch & body-based experiences
  • Talk-based coaching
  • Insightful theory
  • Deeper reflection to link your body and mind

If you’re a couple:

All the same elements as solo coaching, plus we can incorporate partnered touch into sessions - guided by me, but happening between you both.

Every session includes:

  • A clear focus for what you want to learn
  • Tools to help you connect with, and expand, the wisdom your body already has
  • Practices you can continue with partners, friends or solo

What can you explore in gay online coaching?

Online sessions with me can be a great way to try things out before committing to a longer programme - or to craft a complete learning journey from wherever you are. Some areas we can explore together:

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Self pleasure

Reconnect with your body’s wisdom using guided practices for breath, touch, movement, sound, and attention. Expand your capacity for enjoyment, and build confidence in yourself. Learn more

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Body awareness

Discover how to build a better relationship with sensation, emotion, and physical presence - essential for deeper intimacy

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Communication

Learn how to express what you want - and don’t want. Practice boundaries, consent, and deep listening to your own body when it comes to your desires and limits (all without any need for touch)

Curious about what's possible? Let's talk...

Book a free clarity call - a no-pressure chat about what you’re curious to explore and how I can support you:

Take your next steps...

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Doing this work together is a very personal experience so it's important we're a good fit.  That's why I offer a free, no-obligation Clarity Call if we haven't worked together before.

This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

Schedule a time below that suits you.

More ways to learn with me:

Pleasure in yourself 7 day pleasure adventure

Take yourself on a self pleasure journey with this home-study coaching course for men. Essential foundations for more mindful masturbation.

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Pleasure in yourself 4 week coaching programme

Masturbation coaching with a difference. A 4-week online coaching programme helping you build a more mindful self-pleasure practice that’s unique to you

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Pleasure in yourself – Pleasure foundations

Looking for next-level self pleasure techniques? You’ve already got them! You just need to learn how to harness the skills your body was born with

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Man to Man

Ask me anything. Chat with me over a cuppa about gay sex, intimacy, relating, pleasure or arousal. Bring your curiosity and questions

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