Gay sex & intimacy coaching for men

Practical guidance to build your confidence with connection, desire, and pleasure

Ready for something deeper than apps and hookups?

You're in the right place if you're craving:

More meaningful, enjoyable touch
A safe, guided space to explore your desires
Connection that goes beyond performance or pressure

This is for you if you want to:

Break free from old patterns around sex, intimacy, or relationships
Feel confident and connected in your erotic self
Learn and grow through body-to-body practice with another man

Start your journey - book a free Clarity Call with me now

What you'll experience in coaching with me

My expert, personalised support - focused entirely on you

A pressure-free space to explore intimacy and touch

Body-based practices to reconnect you with pleasure, trust, and confidence

What to expect in sessions...

Clear agreements, flexible structure, and space for reflection
The possibility for full-body touch (clothed or unclothed - it’s always your choice)
Arousal, pleasure, and sexual expression are welcome
Safety, choice, consent, and integrity are the foundation of everything we do

Whether you're solo or in a couple, each session is tailored to you.

“An unmissable experience…the best part was Michael’s willingness to listen and respond to my wants as we crafted our sessions together”

Terry

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create more harmonious relationships"

Huw

"Michael helped us navigate our own internal pleasure maps and learn what works and what does not work for each of us"

Dan & Ian

Your journey through the sessions

First session

The first time we work together is an opportunity for both of us to get a feel for working together and start to build some of the foundations we’ll grow from in future sessions.

If touch is included, it’s usually clothed and may involve self-touch or non-erotic guided touch.

This sets the stage for safety and grounded exploration.

Later sessions

As trust and confidence grow, we can gradually ‘expand the canvas’ based on your intentions. Over time, you may choose for either or both of us to be clothed or unclothed, or touch to become more intimate, depending on what you want to explore.

We’ll always take things slowly. Each practice, exercise, or physical experience is followed by space for reflection and processing, helping you integrate your learning and decide your next steps.

Everything is optional - guided by your choice, and your body.

In-person coaching pathways

Because the real value of the gay sex and intimacy coaching I offer is about supporting you to feel more comfortable with your true intimate self, I've found that making more space, and creating more commitment will help you get more impactful outcomes.

My one-to-one multi-session coaching pathways offer more spaciousness to help you:

Access your real desires
Explore deeper, more connected touch
Learn to give and receive with ease
Expand your capacity for pleasure and joy

We use the 4 Dynamics of Touch to create a learning experience that is embodied, true to you, and transformative.

9-hour coaching session package

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5-month confidence + connection programme

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Want to work online?

You can explore, grow, and reconnect with your body - wherever you are.

Online coaching combines a mix of guided self-touch practices, insightful theory, and deeper reflection to creation connection between your body and mind.

Areas of online learning include:

Self-pleasure Reconnect with your body’s wisdom, expand your capacity for enjoyment, and build confidence in yourself. Learn more
Body awareness Build a better relationship with sensation, emotion, and physical presence - essential for deeper intimacy
Communication – learn how to express what you want and don’t want, practice boundaries, consent, and deep listening to your body

Is it for you?

There are many reasons gay, bi and curious men might benefit from one-to-one sex and intimacy coaching with me. Hear from men like you:

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Terry's story

Coming out in later life, and feeling inexperienced

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Anders' story

Rediscovering touch, and intimacy after chemsex

Emil's story

Finding an erotic identity beyond relationship patterns

Dan & Ian's story

Learning how to communicate desires better

How much does coaching cost?

As with most coaching or therapy it can take a number of sessions for real and effective change to happen. For this reason I generally recommend an intention to commit to at least 9 hours of coaching time when we start to work together.

Taster session

Available: Hastings, online

90 mins: £95

(If you go on to book a coaching package or programme this cost can be deducted from the total)

9-hour package

Available: Hastings

3 hours coaching per month for 3 months

£800 (or 3 payments of £267/month)

Individual sessions

Available: Hastings, online

90 mins: £150

3 hours: £300

Extended sessions

Available: Hastings, London

6 hours: £600
Add £200 if you’d like sessions in London

OR LEARN MORE ABOUT MY 5-MONTH COACHING PROGRAMME

Read my booking terms & session agreements

Take your next steps...

Doing this work together is a very personal experience so it's important we're a good fit. That's why I offer a free, no-pressure Clarity Call if we haven't worked together before.

This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

Schedule a time below that suits you.