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How long does a session with me last?

Working with me is about creating new approaches, re-wiring patterns, and building skills. Taking time is an essential part of this, so there are some parameters to what I offer.

A one-off or single session is great when there’s a quick, or standard solution to a problem.

But you and your body are unique and complex.

This is why I don't offer short single sessions, or a ‘quick fix’

The impetus to seek sex or intimacy coaching is usually that you feel something needs improvement, or isn’t working the way you want it to, in your love-life. When we experience this we often want someone else to ‘fix’ things.

But when it comes to sex and intimacy, the only person who can really fix things is you. Making changes requires a desire to make changes in yourself. And this takes time.

Feeling pressure to perform, or achieve results is often what has contributed to dissatisfaction with sex or intimacy. Trying to ‘fix’ things too quickly is counter-productive - it’s just not possible in a single session.

I’ve found it can take quite a number of hours to create trust – between us, and with your own body - so that you can relax into your experience and learning.

This is why working with me generally takes the form of day-long (6-hour) Immersives.

Different types of sessions with me

Tailored Sessions

Working in person with me usually happens in a personalised conSensuality Immersive, of 1, 2, or 3 days.

These offer you a tailored, guided framework within which you can learn and practice skills for accessing desire, touch and pleasure in the most valuable way for you.

Multi-session coaching programmes

The tools and practices I offer are foundational, and I find they often provide the key to unlocking more specific sex or intimacy issues that might have been the initial impetus for seeking a coach.

So I’ve also developed a number of multi-session coaching programmes which focus on some of the most effective ways I’ve found to support and empower clients.

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