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How long does a session with me last?

Working with me is about creating new approaches, re-wiring patterns, and building skills. Taking time is an essential part of this, so there are some parameters to what I offer.

The impetus to seek a gay sex or intimacy coaching session is usually that you feel something needs improvement, or isn’t working the way you want it to, in your love-life. When we experience this we often want someone else to ‘fix’ things.

Feeling pressure to perform, or achieve results is often what has contributed to dissatisfaction with sex or intimacy. Trying to ‘fix’ things too quickly is counter-productive – it’s just not possible in a single short session.

Making changes requires a desire to make changes in yourself. And this takes time.

The importance of trust and safety

This is especially true when it comes to pleasure. It takes time to create a feeling of safety, and the safer you feel the more easily you’ll be able to access pleasure.

I’ve found it generally takes several hours to create trust – between us, and with your own body – so that you can really relax into your experience and learning.

Even if we’ve already worked together your body and your self will be in a different place from the last time we met, so it’s important to leave space to recreate enough safety before we dive into our work together again.

How long does a gay sex or intimacy coaching session with me last?

The most flexible way to work with me is an in-person tailored Immersive

These start at a minimum of 1 day, which allows for 6 hours of spacious work together – with plenty of time for breaks and reflection, as well as hands-on practice – without feeling rushed or pressured.

I also offer in-person Immersives of 2, or 3 days, as well as tailored online coaching series.

Other ways you can work with me

The tools and practices I offer are foundational. For this reason I find they often provide an unexpected key to unlocking more specific sex or intimacy issues that might have been the initial reason for seeking a gay sex coaching session.

So I’ve developed a number of multi-session programmes which focus on some of the most effective ways I’ve found to support and empower clients.

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