Resources to read
Gay sex resources. Browse my articles and blog posts below for tips and ideas on how you can improve touch, pleasure, intimacy, sex and relating in your life...
Touch
Touch during sex often focuses mainly on the genitals. Learn why full body touch is essential for wellbeing, and an important gateway to a better experience of intimacy and sex.
How to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need
From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!
How to tell if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something
It’s not what you say, it’s why you say it. Follow these simple steps and learn how to tell when to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something.
What’s the difference between learning & experiencing?
Mindful sex and intimacy coaching sessions with me involve a number of elements. Learning and Experiencing are two of the most important. But how do they differ?
The Happy Hypersexual
I’m proud to have been asked to write the forward for Jason Armstrong’s third book ‘The Happy Hypersexual’, which explores the male sexual experience in the context of a global pandemic.
How pleasure can help shift shame
Shame and judgement can play a big part in how gay men feel about sex and desire. Learn how to give yourself permission to move beyond that
What is mindful sex?
What is mindful sex, and how can mindful sex coaching help you? Learn about this different approach to sex and intimacy, and try out some simple ideas to get you started…
How to create more pleasure during sex and intimacy
Did you know pleasure isn’t something anyone can give you? It happens in your own body. Discover how you can get more pleasure from gay sex.
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